Get your family safe. Get them in the first safe country you get to. Ideally a country that you're culturally aligned to, possibly even already understand the language ... but no, leave your family in that war torn place that you're supposedly scared to exist in, go through multiple safe countries, join 300 other blokes, risk your life on a boat to get to England and be locked up in a hotel where nobody wants you.
You'd think there'd be no upside, so why do they keep coming?
As a young bloke, holed up with no female company, cant communicate or meet people then be let out and about on the streets with hormones running high and the authorities are surprised when some of them sexually assault young women.
Whilst I'm not excusing it, in their cultural norm, it shouldn't be a surprise. The authorities need to get a grip but I dont have any answers, just see the same arguments on here from both sides repeated.
If it's not resolved though, I think some people who think it's not an issue and sympathise, will be very disappointed with the seemingly inevitable outcome.