Tbf, I reckon the dickhead was just an insecure bully, so the problem is with himself and not you or your teammates.
Which in itself is also what you mentioned re. players coming out and ignorant cunts giving them stick for it.
Problems with some societies I guess.
'What's that button over there for!?,
What's that button over there for!?'
'Argh, argh, argh, argh, argh!!,
Argh, argh, argh, argh, argh!!'
Oh, fond memories!