Work colleagues dying (2 Viewers)

[nicksar]

When I worked there, guy in my dept. committed suicide. In his 40’s I think, but tough to handle for us, as hadn’t realised he was in any “pain”. Always asking yourself if there was anything you could have done.

My best pal from MF died recently, he’d worked there for around 30 years, and was in his 80’s when he died, but still feeling the loss. Should be thinking “well, he had a good life” but that doesn’t help much.

its tough whatever age they are if you knew them

Just worth mentioning "J" ...Gaz Warner passed away a couple of weeks ago, I'm fairly sure you would have known him from our younger days,great lad.

 

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[nicksar]

Anyone else experiencing this?
First guy had at least retired and was just 70 the most recent lady is my age and was such a lovely person

Anyone any words of wisdom on what’s the point? Does anything we do really matter?

My eldest daughter is a qualified Grief counsellor Pete and has written a best selling book on dealing with loss...also available as an audio book.
Message me if it may be of interest to you.

 

[olderskyblue]

Just worth mentioning "J" ...Gaz Warner passed away a couple of weeks ago, I'm fairly sure you would have known him from our younger days,great lad.

That’s sad. Yes, I knew Gaz back then. Lived not too far from me. Any west Enders of that era would know him…. Or skinheads in town.