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Joe King

Fairly well known member from Malvern
  • Dec 5, 2025
  • #1
Sorry about this post guys, but just feel I need to look for a bit of moral support.
My wife, who is 75, was rushed to hospital today. She had spent nearly 2 hours on our bedroom floor. I tried my hardest to get her up, but failed. In the end, I called 999 to ask for help. The paramedics came fairly quickly but they also spent about another 30 to 40 minutes trying to lift her. She's a big lass and she was in a small space between our bed and dressing table. Anyway, they eventually got her up onto a chair, then after checking her vital signs, said she needs to go to hospital ASAP. After they took her, I got a phone call from the duty doctor to say she has only 80% oxygen intake where it should be 95%. She is also anemic and has sepsis. They want to give her a blood transfusion. He also asked me about DNR (do not resuscitate) and said it would be best not to as her heart would not stand thumping her chest or the use of a defibrillator. The first 48 hours are crucial.
I'm preparing myself for the worst.
Sorry for this long post lads, but as I'm not religious in any way, if any of you guys are, say a prayer for my lovely missus please.
Much love JK (formally Houchens Head)
 
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Sky_Blue_Dreamer

Well-Known Member
  • Dec 5, 2025
  • #2
Wishing you and your wife all the best.
 
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Covkid1968#

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  • Dec 5, 2025
  • #3
Sending a ton of positive thoughts HH ….. best wishes
 
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Earlsdon_Skyblue1

Well-Known Member
  • Dec 5, 2025
  • #4
Positive thoughts coming your way HH.
 
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SIR ERNIE

Well-Known Member
  • Dec 5, 2025
  • #5
Best wishes and prayers JK
 
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BodicoteSkyBlue

Well-Known Member
  • Dec 5, 2025
  • #6
Best wishes for you and Mrs Houch.
 
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PVA

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  • Dec 5, 2025
  • #7
Best wishes to you and your family, hope she pulls through.
 
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rob9872

Well-Known Member
  • Dec 5, 2025
  • #8
All the best Houch.

If it's any comfort at all my mum was very similar in the summer and is 79. It was touch and go, she got the sepsis from a small knock on her leg in the garden and it took hold of her so quickly. She's thankfully made a full recovery after a couple of weeks with our brilliant NHS. Not steady on her pins, but she wasn't great before tbf. Wishing your Mrs the same outcome as mum PUSB
 
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CCFCSteve

Well-Known Member
  • Dec 5, 2025
  • #9
Best wishes and prayers for you both
 
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Ccfcisparks

Well-Known Member
  • Dec 5, 2025
  • #10
Best wishes HH
 
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Chris1987

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  • Dec 5, 2025
  • #11
Best wishes . Fingers crossed .
 
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Otis

Well-Known Member
  • Dec 5, 2025
  • #12
I'm not all religious, but I am sending positive thoughts your way, HH.

Hoping for the very best outcome for you and your wife. x
 
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SkyBlueCharlie9

Well-Known Member
  • Dec 5, 2025
  • #13
All the best HH. 🩵
 
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Briles

Well-Known Member
  • Dec 5, 2025
  • #14
Stay strong buddy as she will
 
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We'll_live_and_die

Super Moderator
  • Dec 5, 2025
  • #15
Thoughts are with you Baz, I hope she gets through it.
 
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StrettoBoy

Well-Known Member
  • Dec 5, 2025
  • #16
I'm very sorry to hear your news JK.

I am a Christian and I will most certainly hold you and your wife in my thoughts and prayers. I know that, quite understandably, you are deeply concerned about your wife but don't forget to look after yourself.

Please don't give up hope. My dad was admitted to Walsgrave Hospital with a serious infection in 1990. We turned up to visit him one night to be told that his heart had stopped, he wasn't breathing and he was technically dead but they were working on him. They resuscitated him and he spent the next few days on life support. He made a full recovery and lived another ten years.

 
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mmttww

Well-Known Member
  • Dec 5, 2025
  • #17
Hold on, fella. You're not alone.
 
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Joe King

Fairly well known member from Malvern
  • Dec 5, 2025
  • #18
StrettoBoy said:
I'm very sorry to hear your news JK.

I am a Christian and I will most certainly hold you and your wife in my thoughts and prayers. I know that, quite understandably, you are deeply concerned about your wife but don't forget to look after yourself.

Please don't give up hope. My dad was admitted to Walsgrave Hospital with a serious infection in 1990. We turned up to visit him one night to be told that his heart had stopped, he wasn't breathing and he was technically dead but they were working on him. They resuscitated him and he spent the next few days on life support. He made a full recovery and lived another ten years.

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Sadly, they won't resuscitate my wife.
 

olderskyblue

Well-Known Member
  • Dec 5, 2025
  • #19
Hope shes ok Houch
 
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StrettoBoy

Well-Known Member
  • Dec 5, 2025
  • #20
Joe King said:
Sadly, they won't resuscitate my wife.
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I know, you said that.

My point was don't give up hope. They can do wonderful things these days.

Stay as strong as you can, although I know it's not easy.

 
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itsabuzzard

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  • Dec 5, 2025
  • #21
Not a praying man but sincerely hope that you and your wife get through this awful ordeal. We are all thinking of you.
 
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RegTheDonk

Well-Known Member
  • Dec 5, 2025
  • #22
Stay positive if you can Houch. Transfusion will help with the sepsis and oxygen levels. Wishing you and her the best.
 
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Johnnythespider

Well-Known Member
  • Dec 5, 2025
  • #23
All the best to you both, hoping you hear better news soon.
 
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nicksar

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  • Dec 5, 2025
  • #24
Fingers crossed for your wife J.K.
 
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stay_up_skyblues

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  • Dec 5, 2025
  • #25
Sending best wishes mate.
 
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Captain Dart

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  • Dec 5, 2025
  • #26
Best wishes.
 
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Sky_Blue_Daz

Well-Known Member
  • Dec 6, 2025
  • #27
Good thoughts and wishes to you and the good lady mate .
 
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StrettoBoy

Well-Known Member
  • Dec 6, 2025
  • #28
@Joe King

Still thinking of you. I hope your wife had a good night.



 
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Sick Boy

Super Moderator
  • Dec 6, 2025
  • #29
All the best, Baz.
 
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skyblueinBaku

Well-Known Member
  • Dec 6, 2025
  • #30
Best wishes to you and your wife
 
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lifeskyblue

Well-Known Member
  • Dec 6, 2025
  • #31
Thoughts and prayers for your wife and you. Stay strong for both of you
 
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chiefdave

Well-Known Member
  • Dec 6, 2025
  • #32
Thinking of you Houch and hoping you get some good news. Pretty clear from your posts on her over the years how much she means to you.
 
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wingy

Well-Known Member
  • Dec 6, 2025
  • #33
Will do Baz, thoughts are with you both.
 
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Sbarcher

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  • Dec 6, 2025
  • #34
Head up Houch. Sending positive thoughts.
 
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Mercian In Anglia

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  • Dec 6, 2025
  • #35
take care and best wishes to you both.
 
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