Best of luck.Yeah essentially she broke our original separation agreement within a week and I’ve lost trust in her. Probably naively originally I said she could have full custody on paper because she said she needs he benefits (only because she’s choosing to work part time). I want 50/50 legally now as I don’t trust her and she’s saying if I ask for that she’ll kick off, allege all kinds of stuff, get full custody anyway and get child maintainable and spousal support. She’s saying she’s had advice and this will definitely happen, and I’ve not had advice as we said no lawyers at the start.
Basically I’ve been a bit stupid and now need to work out what my rights are so I can’t be blackmailed.
Yeah essentially she broke our original separation agreement within a week and I’ve lost trust in her. Probably naively originally I said she could have full custody on paper because she said she needs he benefits (only because she’s choosing to work part time). I want 50/50 legally now as I don’t trust her and she’s saying if I ask for that she’ll kick off, allege all kinds of stuff, get full custody anyway and get child maintainable and spousal support. She’s saying she’s had advice and this will definitely happen, and I’ve not had advice as we said no lawyers at the start.
Basically I’ve been a bit stupid and now need to work out what my rights are so I can’t be blackmailed.
Jesus Christ. They really are something else women. How can they be so spiteful?
The way she broke the agreement was introducing her new bloke to the kids without talking to me first.
Ay? What?
I have a pretty long fuse but there would be absolute carnage. If you haven't been round and volleyed his head so far you have much more self restraint then I ever could have.
Ha! I’m not a violent guy at all, but I went over yesterday to sort this out with her and he was there. For the first time in my life I squared up to someone and told him to get the fuck out of my house and stay the fuck away from my kids.
Was kind of exhilarating. Might become a football hooligan.
Nope, me neither.Cheers guys. Unsurprisingly she thought I overreacted. He’s lucky my three year old was in the house or she’d have seen overreaction.
Don’t get the guy at all, if roles were reversed no way would I be putting myself in the middle of a family breakup like that. Immoral prick.
Cheers guys. Unsurprisingly she thought I overreacted. He’s lucky my three year old was in the house or she’d have seen overreaction.
Don’t get the guy at all, if roles were reversed no way would I be putting myself in the middle of a family breakup like that. Immoral prick.
It's only been a couple of months hasn't it? Why would he even want to?
I can half understand if you had done one and she was a single mum but not too sure why he doesn't he expect a kickin for swaggering about in your house.
Do you know who he is? Just a random?
Need to get somebody to pick him up in the back of a transit and drop him off in rural Wales after blindfolding him and giving him a pasting.
Apparently she knew him from before we were together, I’ve no idea though.
His actions have told me all i need to know about him though.
Yep. Document everything. Keep records of everything.Horrible situation shmmeee......keep a record of her actions, broken promises, threats, texts etc. & try to stay focused on your kids.......they're THE positive that will pull you through this shit.....
...good luck.
Best of luck.
She has obviously taken advice and now got thoughts in her head.
Surely 50/50 should always be the intented solution if it is at all possible.
Hate all this 'see them every two weeks bollocks.'
You spend every day with them and then suddenly you are supposed to just give all that up and be thankful for every other weekend? Nonsense.
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