Anyway, as for your question, I run a website on a band called Shack, I have a forum on it, so look for any ideas, but to be honest, you offer a lot more on here already. http://www.shacknet.co.uk/forums
Yeah, I've used them for years and the first few versions were free. I think I paid around $59 for the software plus a year's support, that was a couple of years back now. Very stable. I just can't be arsed to make it look good like you have.