My condolences Tom.
I lost my father age 55 from a brain hemorrhage, no illness no warning just gone, I was aged 21, I would have loved to spend an extra 20 years with him, so many unanswered questions. 😢
Thanks to the FA and the Premier League big clubs the romance has gone out of the FA Cup already, they don't even play the first team until the quarter finals, just degrades the competition. 🙈
It's been reported that non-league clubs are to ask the FA from next year if they get into the third round of the Cup and get drawn against a Premier League team at Home, they would like the choice to play it at the Premier League teams ground.
I think that's a fair solution, win win all round.