Guess Wembley would again bring mixed feelings.
I would probably wish I was there to be honestGuess Wembley would again bring mixed feelings.
How will you feel you think about watching the game just on TV?
I try to have that attitude, ticked lots off my bucket list, Cov at wembley would be anotherSorry to hear of your loss. One thing you should have learnt is not to live with regrets that you didn't do something. It would be better to go and be upset than spend the rest of your life wishing you did
Is watching Cov lately ever a good experience? :shamefullyembarrased:Guess that's the main thing, on whether it would be a good or bad experience.
Would be my brother and his son, not going to let my dad go as he didn't let me go in 87 :finger:Well yeah, I personally would recommend you going, but obviously I don't know how you feel about it all in your heart, or how raw it all still is for you.
Would you go with friends and family?
Thank you, cherish and love every moment with your boy mateChrist that's awful. Im so sorry for your loss.
My lad is 14... i cant imagine what you, your family and friends must have gone through.
Yes mate you should go, they will be with you.
They would likely be pissed off if I didn't go. Deep down I know the right thing to do is go, just found the arsenal game real tough, was a lot fresher then though, not that it gets easier as it don't.I suppose the question you have to ask yourself is, would your son and nephew want you to go?
If they could talk to you now what would they say to you? What would you say to them if you were in the same position and could talk to them from the spirit world?
Hi Forum, first post so first I'll introduce myself. Im J, originally from Cov but now in Nuneaton, and yes I do have the correct number of fingers etc lol
Basically, in 2013 I lost my son and nephew in a car accident, both aged 15 and big cov fans, and we used to attend often home and away. I've only been twice since, once to the emirates and the first game back at the Ricoh against Gillingham. My dream would of been to take them to watch Cov at Wembley, and a very selfish part of me hoped we might screw up in the semi, I know that's bad of me as a city fan but now we are there, I'm really not sure I have it in me to go. Was upsetting for me at the emirates thinking my lad should be there, I'd imagine Wembley to be worse. On the other hand, my Dad didn't take me in 87 saying I was to young, and I've always hoped one day we would get there. Now I'm 42, and really unsure how to play it. Hard to answer I imagine, but what would you do? Apologies if this post brings the mood down.
PUSB
Sorry pal, didn't want to drop the mood. Up the city lolBloody hell im choking up here.
Any so called problems i may have had on my mind today have just evaporated into worthlessness.
Value what really matters.
Thanks palreally sorry to hear of your loss. cant imagine how hard it must be.
my advise would be too try live rest of your life in hapiness as thats what your son and nephew would want, loss is hard enough, to have it consume you for rest of life is horrible but also understandable i should add.
you will never forget your lost loved ones,but you can try to enjoy each day as it comes with those you still have by your side. get 2 tickets and take your dad. have that sunny day out at wembley with your father 30 years on.
your son and nephew will be watching with the best seats in the house.
Yep. And then you have me.That's the thing we have some great guys on here
Are they the previous match entertainment or something?welcome to madness but you should go
Thank you.JJ, listening to your comments I think you've already made your mind up but I totally agree with the saying: "if you're gonna have regrets, make them for something you did rather than something you didn't."
See you there
Pusb
Thank youJJ... I cannot imagine how it feels, I cannot go to a game without my son who's nearly 12 we share experience everywhere so to be faced with your dilemma is a heart puller.
My advice would be to go still, just because your son and nephew are not there physically by your side does not mean they will not be there in spirit.
I'm sure you still share quiet words together, so you have to believe they will be there with you.
My partner is a big believer in the spirit lives on and you probably see signs in indications that they still are around you in spirit.
Well done for sharing your story, best wishes JJ.
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