I used to go to all the home England games. I still have an interest, but tbh it doesn't worry me when I miss games like last night and only really get excited for the major tournaments. A few years back I would have chosen country over club particularly on the basis that we're unlikely to ever achiveve any success, but now it would be the City I'd pick every time.
Unfortunately I've only had the opportunity to attend one England match but go loopy every major competition. I, like yourself I assume, feel lost on these weekends!!