I find the whole thing very sad. She has a borderline personality disorder doesn't she. This should not be played out in a courtroom in front of the world.
The both seem troubled and it was clearly toxic, but it's all very sad to see.
You have to time Fargo to catch it at its best. Sometimes it's very busy, like when there is the jazz club. My daughter goes once a month.
Try and catch an actual event there rather than just turn up, because like you say, it can be completely dead at times.