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  1. SkyBlue_Bear83

    Lose the Gut Thread 2019!!

    It’s not the same but it is still beneficial if you are going to be out of the gym for 3 months and better than body weight exercises. Get a set for about £30 and you can YouTube some good workouts, without being an expert I watch a lot of experts and you can use different techniques to overload...
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    Lose the Gut Thread 2019!!

    Get some dumbbells and workout at home?
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    Gael Bigirimana

    Shame for him. He actually started off really well when he first moved to Newcastle and scored a cracking goal for them in the premier league. Then it all went wrong somewhere down the line.
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    Are you happy

    Today a guy at work was having a coughing fit quite badly in a meeting, everyone was giving him funny lucks and like stay away sort of thing. Me being a clown took a face visor out of the cupboard and handed it to him making light of it, I was only having a little mess and he took it off me...
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    Coronavirus

    So someone I know(not in Coventry) has self isolated themselves because a member of staff at a school got corona virus and one of the students of that school(no corona virus diagnosis) may or may not have attended the same church as her daughter. Seems a bit excessive?
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    Are you happy

    I mean you say talk normally which is fine, I’ve always been fairly good at having female friendships so that’s not such a problem. But a romantic relationship isn’t a normal relationship is it, it can start the same but you can’t treat a woman you are interested in exactly the same as the...
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    Are you happy

    Could have at least said they weren’t going to make it or be upfront if they are not interested.
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    Are you happy

    Got stood up for a date last night
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    Are you happy

    I went 8 days recently without porn or masturbation, I was really struggling to sleep well by the last 2 days
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    Are you happy

    I have a problem with this as well
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    Are you happy

    Thanks for replies everyone. I have briefly considered a prostitute and I get the thought process of getting your first time out of the way with someone you don’t care about so it’s not as big a deal when I meet someone I really like. But I’m not sure it fits into my morals, maybe if I was sure...
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    Are you happy

    I think this a good point, obviously problems effect everyone of all genders and ages but I think there is a point in this. When a woman is upset or going through something difficult she will have an army of girlfriends to help her and help build herself back up or in some cases she will have a...
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    Are you happy

    Thanks mate, I'm on pof and tinder. I will have a look at bumble. Congrats to your mate, I have lost 3.5 stone over about the last 14 months. I have probably one stone to lose still until I'm happy with my weight
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    Are you happy

    How did your friend end up meeting his partner? Was there something he was doing that ended up being particularly helpful for him? Also was he upfront early on about his complete lack of experience with women/relationships?
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    Are you happy

    It’s kind of a self sabotaging cycle, cause the more I get depressed and down a bit the less attractive I become and makes it harder to meet someone which in turn gets me more down. I know people who I work/have worked with who are 40/50/60 years who are single and no kids and I’m worried I...
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    Are you happy

    Thanks guys, I’ve been trying really hard the last 3 years or so. Started working out and getting in shape(getting there), bought a flat, nice car, started dressing better. So I am trying, but nothing ever changes with how I feel or meeting someone. The last 6 months or so I’ve been trying to...
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    Are you happy

    Basically I’m a couple of years away from 30 now and a virgin who has never even been kissed, it’s hard not to think there is something wrong with you when you get to this age. It’s left me questioning my sexuality now, maybe I’m asexual or something close to it. So feeling pretty lonely and...
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    Are you happy

    I’ve always been afraid a gp wouldn’t listen to me properly, that I would just get dismissed as someone who is just a little sad or upset and not having a real problem.
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    Are you happy

    He says he has seen improvement but I don’t see it or feel it, and if I am ‘improving’ outwardly I certainly don’t feel it inside.
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    Are you happy

    Yes, same one. No I haven’t been to see a gp, I just looked online, £45 a session. He is a registered mbacp member. I guess the next step would be to see a gp and try and get on some medication but I wanted to avoid that.
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