Recent content by DannyB

You’re right on that one, they do seem more calculated and manipulative. I was no angel don’t get me wrong, no adultery mind you, but difficulties in marriage stems from both sides in my opinion. One thing about divorce law I’ve learned is most judges don’t care about the ins and outs of the...

Thanks Macca, sorry to hear you went through similar aggro and heartache. I’m also hoping the threat of court will bring things to an amicable ending. All divorce law in the UK starts at 50/50 and only a few things move it away from this, kids being one. I’m sure her and her dodgy lawyer know...

No luckily.

Yeh that’s true. if it goes to court it’ll cost us both anything upto £15K, and I know she doesn’t want that. Hopefully the the threat of court will like you say sharpen her mind

That’s it, I’m not just up against the ex, it’s the whole family and friends juggernaut too, and I’m pretty certain they are pulling her strings because things that have been said don’t make any sense. Plus I think their solicitor is also weighing in. My solicitor is experienced and believes...

from my end yes, I only want what the law says I’m entitled to. Whereas the ex only wants what she wants.

Yeh I’ve met a few already, and so many of them just walked away. End of the day this is going to cost her more than she anticipated, so I’m hoping money will move her, seems like it’s the only thing that does.

Mediation will have to be an option because a divorce case cannot go to court until this has been attempted. I won’t attempt mediation until she has disclosed all her finances including the Savings account she has cashed in and moved. And of course when the house has been officially valued.

People change when it comes to money, I’ve found that out. in my case because the house valuation has not been agreed, 2 estate agents will be brought in to complete a joint valuation. If it went to court the judge would hire a surveyor.

Paying to hear you cannot fight it, jeez that must have been a pisser. My solicitor has said I have a case and is doing his best to avoid court. The ex said she doesn’t want court but then hides savings and undervalues the house etc, playing games basically.

That is what I want but the ex doesn’t. In fact she wanted me to walk away with nothing. So I’ve had to get solicitors help. From what I know divorce law is law and you have to abide by it, so she cannot get away with that.

Do any of you good people have any knowledge of the laws of Divorce or has anyone been through the process? Currently going through it with my ex and jeez what a stress it is. Lies, moving money, delaying financial disclosure, dodgy solicitors. I now understand why a lot people just walk away...